💞 Stronger Together – Relationship Skills for Lasting Partnerships *coming soon
Course overview
Lesson Overview

3.6 – Avoiding Blame and Shifting to Shared Problem-Solving: Avoiding blame means replacing finger-pointing with teamwork. In conflict, it’s easy to focus on who caused the problem instead of how to fix it. Shared problem-solving changes the goal from being right to being effective. It encourages both people to look at the issue as something outside of them rather than between them. This mindset lowers defensiveness and fosters collaboration. It builds an environment where mistakes become lessons rather than weapons. Blame divides, but problem-solving unites. By asking “What can we do differently next time?” couples learn to grow instead of accuse. It turns frustration into cooperation and anger into action. Avoiding blame doesn’t mean ignoring responsibility—it means handling it with grace.

About this course

Guidance and strategies to help couples build trust, communicate effectively, and strengthen their partnership for long-term success.

This course includes:
  • Communication and conflict resolution practice activities
  • Trust-building and intimacy exercises
  • Partnership goal-setting templates and tools

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