💞 Stronger Together – Relationship Skills for Lasting Partnerships *coming soon
Course overview
Lesson Overview

3.63 – Moving From “You Always” to “I Notice”: The phrase “you always” traps communication in blame and exaggeration. Replacing it with “I notice” turns accusation into observation. This shift encourages dialogue and reduces defensiveness. It invites curiosity about behavior instead of condemnation of character. Saying “I notice we’ve been tense lately” feels safer than “You always start fights.” The focus moves from judgment to collaboration. This small language change rewires the emotional tone of communication. It models respect and thoughtfulness even in disagreement. Over time, it turns conflict into constructive awareness. Replacing “you always” with “I notice” transforms criticism into connection.

About this course

Guidance and strategies to help couples build trust, communicate effectively, and strengthen their partnership for long-term success.

This course includes:
  • Communication and conflict resolution practice activities
  • Trust-building and intimacy exercises
  • Partnership goal-setting templates and tools

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