💞 Stronger Together – Relationship Skills for Lasting Partnerships *coming soon
Course overview
Lesson Overview

9.71 – Avoiding Emotional Scorekeeping in Repair: Counting past offenses turns healing into competition. Emotional scorekeeping undermines trust by framing love as a ledger. Avoiding it means focusing on present effort rather than historical totals. Letting go of tally systems requires forgiveness and gratitude. Both partners must stop measuring who suffered more and start celebrating who’s improving more. Scorekeeping prevents closure; release allows rebirth. When both people choose progress over points, emotional equality returns naturally. The heart heals faster when it no longer keeps score.

About this course

Guidance and strategies to help couples build trust, communicate effectively, and strengthen their partnership for long-term success.

This course includes:
  • Communication and conflict resolution practice activities
  • Trust-building and intimacy exercises
  • Partnership goal-setting templates and tools

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