💞 Stronger Together – Relationship Skills for Lasting Partnerships *coming soon
Course overview
Lesson Overview

3.81 – Avoiding Scorekeeping in Arguments: Scorekeeping turns relationships into competitions instead of partnerships. It happens when each person tallies past mistakes to gain leverage in the present. This mindset erodes trust and shifts focus from understanding to winning. Avoiding scorekeeping means addressing one issue at a time without referencing old conflicts as ammunition. It requires forgiveness and emotional discipline. Healthy communication looks forward, not backward. When couples stop counting faults, they create room for empathy. Love thrives when fairness replaces accounting. Avoiding scorekeeping frees both people from the burden of perfection and restores teamwork. In mature relationships, progress matters more than proof.

About this course

Guidance and strategies to help couples build trust, communicate effectively, and strengthen their partnership for long-term success.

This course includes:
  • Communication and conflict resolution practice activities
  • Trust-building and intimacy exercises
  • Partnership goal-setting templates and tools

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